Finding ourselves in the same town, multi-talented coach (i.e., personal, agile, business) extraordinaire Scotty Bevill answered a few of my questions about his current focus -- clarity. As you watch and listen, ask yourself what clarity -- or lack of it -- does for you? (more…)

When you feel obligated, you are doing something you don't want to do but feel you have to. Feeling like you "have to” generates resentment that you either bottle up or release at unrelated or inappropriate moments, and the resentment produces unproductive or at least wasted thoughts and action. The Responsibility Process shows us that the feelings of obligation are...